Into ebikade iyindlela yokugqibela kubathengisi abatsala nzima yenzeka rhoqo kwindawo yentengiso ekhuphisanayo yanamhlanje: abakhuphisana ngokuphandle bamela kakubi amandla emveliso yabo okanye, eyona nto imbi kakhulu, ukwenza amagqabaza obuxoki malunga neemveliso okanye iinkonzo zakho.

Kwenziwe ntoni

Wenza ntoni ke xa ukhuphiswano lwakho lugqwetha inyaniso kwaye umthengi wakho ubonakala ewela kwi-pitch?Eyona mpendulo imbi kakhulu kukubandakanyeka kwidabi le-tit-for-tat.

Ezi zezona mpendulo zingcono:

• Mamela ngenyameko xa abathengi bekuxelela malunga nolwazi abalufunde kumntu okhuphisana naye.Kuxhathise ukunika impendulo ekhawulezileyo.Musa ukucinga ukuba umthengi ukholelwa yonke into ethethwa ngumntu okhuphisana naye.Abanye abathengi banokujonga indlela osabela ngayo.Abanye basenokuba bajonge inzuzo yothethathethwano.
• Thatha indlela ephezulu.Ukuba ukhuphiswano lwakho kufuneka lubhenele ekujijekeni amagama akho kunye nokuwachaza kakubi amandla akho ukuze ufumane ingqalelo yomthengi, luphawu oluqinisekileyo lokuba wenza into elungileyo.Umzuzu xa uqala ukugxeka umntu okhuphisana naye ngumzuzu oqala ukuzihlanganisa nabo kunye nokuziphatha kwabo okungalunganga.Mamela ngenyameko kuwo nawaphi na amabango obuxoki enziwe ngumntu okhuphisana naye, uze uphendule ngokucokisekileyo, ngendlela yobuchwephesha phambi kwabathengi.
• Gxininisa kumandla akho.Hlala ulungele ukuphendula umbuzo, "Kutheni kufuneka sithenge kuwe ngaphezu komntu wonke?"Ukuba unokucace gca kwimpendulo yakho, awuyi kuba nexhala malunga nakuphi na ukuhleba okuvela kubantu okhuphisana nabo abangenasimilo.Nje ukuba abathengi bakho baqonde amandla akho akhethekileyo kunye nobuchule bakho, bahlala bengaphenjelelwa ngabaphi na abantu okhuphisana nabo.
• Guqula incoko ibe namava umthengi abenawo nawe.Mkhuthaze ukuba ajonge ngokusondeleyo irekhodi esele liyifumene.Ukuba uthetha nomntu onethemba, baxelele malunga nempumelelo yakho ngokusebenzisana nabanye abathengi ngempumelelo kunye nokuphumeza izisombululo.Zama ukukhankanya imizekelo yemiqobo ephambili amathemba awazange akwazi ukuyicombulula.
• Unganikezeli, nokuba ulahlekelwe ngumthengi.Ngamanye amaxesha wenza izinto ngendlela efanelekileyo kwaye umthengi usahamba nomntu okhuphisana naye.Musa ukuziva ulahlekelwe nguye ngonaphakade, ngakumbi ukuba umthengi wahamba ngenxa yokuba umntu okhuphisana naye wayengenanyani ngokupheleleyo.Abathengi baya kuqonda ukuba benze impazamo ngexesha elithile.Musa ukubenza bazive kufuneka babuye befake umsila phakathi kwemilenze yabo.Qhubeka nokuhlala unxibelelana, kwaye uya kwenza utshintsho lube lula kakhulu.

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