Abathengisi abalungileyo kunye neengcali zenkonzo enkulu zizinto eziphambili zokunyaniseka kwabathengi.Nazi iindlela ezintlanu abanokudibana ukuze bakhe.

Kubalulekile ukusebenzisana kuba ukunyaniseka kwabathengi kusemgceni yonke imihla.Zininzi kakhulu iinketho ezifumaneka lula.Abathengi banokutshintsha iimveliso kunye nababoneleli ngaphandle kokuba uqonde.

Kodwa abasayi kucengwa lula ebantwini – abathengisi kunye neengcali zenkonzo ezithe zabanceda ngolonwabo, utsho uNoah Fleming, umbhali wencwadi ethi Evergreen.

Baza kuqhubeka nokwenza ishishini nabantu ababathandayo nabathembayo.

UFleming unikezela ngezi zicwangciso zintlanu zokwakha ukunyaniseka ngokusebenzisana phakathi kweNtengiso kunye neNkonzo:

1. Yiba ngumsombululi wengxaki

Bonisa abathengi ukuba "silapha ukusombulula iingxaki zakho".Eyona ndlela ingcono: Nika abathengi impendulo efanelekileyo xa befumana iingxaki okanye benemibuzo.

Nokuba awukwazi ukuwuphendula umbuzo okanye ulungise ingxaki ngokukhawuleza, unokuthomalalisa inkxalabo yabo kwaye ufikelele kwisivumelwano malunga nokuba imeko ingasonjululwa njani kwaye nini - ukuba nje ujongana nayo unesimo sengqondo esihle.

2. Yakha ubudlelwane bomntu ngamnye

Okukhona usenza abathengi bazive ngathi ubazi kakuhle, kokukhona baya kuziva ngathi basembindini wendalo yonke yeshishini lakho.

Sebenzisa la magama “mna,” “wam” kunye “nam” xa uthetha naye – ngakumbi xa unceda – ukuze bazi ukuba umntu ukwicala labo, hayi iqumrhu.

Ngokomzekelo, “Ndiza kukunyamekela oku,” “Ndinokukwenza oku,” “Kuluvuyo lwam ukukunceda” nelithi “Enkosi ngokundivumela ukuba ndincede.”

3. Kwenze kube lula ukwenza ishishini

UFleming ucebisa ukuba uphephe ababulali abanyanisekileyo nangaliphi na ixabiso.Ezi ziquka la mabinzana:

Yipolisi yethu leyo

Akubonakali ngathi singayenza loo nto

Kuya kufuneka…

Akufanele, okanye

Kufuneka ube…

Kunoko, ziqhelise ukuba bhetyebhetye kangangoko kunokwenzeka.Zama la mabinzana:

Makhe ndibone ukuba ndenze ntoni

Ndibheja ukuba singasifumana isisombululo kule nto

Ndingenza u-X. Ngaba uyakwazi ukwenza u-Y?, kunye

Masizame ngale ndlela.

4. Yenza izithembiso ezisengqiqweni

Xa ukhuphiswano lunzima, okanye uphantsi koxinzelelo lokudlala, kuyahenda ukuba uthembise ngokugqithisileyo.Loo nto iphantse isoloko ikhokelela ekunikezeleni kancinci.

Olona bhejo lungcono: Yiba nenyani kunye nabathengi ngamaxesha onke.Baxelele into onokuthi uyenze ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye uchaze into enokuphazamisana noko kunye nendlela oya kusebenza ngayo ukuyiphepha.

Kwaye ungoyiki ukuxelela abathengi, "Asinakuyenza."Njengoko uFleming esitsho, akufani nokuthi “Asinakukunceda.”Ungakha ukuzithemba kwabo kuwe nakumbutho wakho ngokubanceda bafumane izisombululo abazidingayo – nokuba koko unokubanika kona ngokukhawuleza, kamva okanye ngelinye ijelo.

Abathengi bayakuxabisa ukunyaniseka phezu kwezithembiso ezaphukileyo.

5. Banike iimbono ezintsha

Nokuba ukwiNtengiso okanye kwiNkonzo, uyingcaphephe kwiimveliso okanye kwiinkonzo zakho kunye nendlela yokwandisa ukusetyenziswa kwazo.Kusenokwenzeka ukuba uyingcaphephe kwishishini lakho ngenxa yamava kunye nolwazi lwezandla.

Yabelana ngengqiqo oye wayifumana kwezo ndawo kunye nabathengi ukubanika iimbono ezintsha malunga nendlela yokusebenza, ukuqhuba ishishini okanye ukuphila ngcono.

Khuphela kwiZibonelelo ze-Intanethi