Abanye abathengisi bajonge ukuphuma kanye emva kokuba ithemba lokuthi "hayi" kumzamo wokuqala wokuvala.Abanye bathatha impendulo engakhiyo baze batyhale ukuyijika.Ngamanye amazwi, batshintsha ukusuka ekubeni ngabathengisi abaluncedo ukuya kubachasi abazimiseleyo, bephakamisa inqanaba lokumelana namathemba.

Nanga amacebiso asixhenxe okukunceda ubuyisele intengiso endleleni:

1. Phulaphula ngenyamekoukufumanisa yonke imibuzo kunye neenkxalabo ezithintela abantu ukuba bathi "ewe."Bayiphulaphule inkcazo-ntetho yakho, yaye ngoku benza intetho encinane bephendula.Banike ithuba lokuvakalisa izimvo zabo.Basenokuziva bebhetele ngokukhupha iingcinga zabo ekuhleni-ngakumbi ukuba bakholelwa ukuba umamele.Uya kufunda ngakumbi malunga nokuba yintoni ebathintelayo ekuthatheni amanyathelo akhawulezileyo.
2. Phinda ubuze imibuzo kunye nezinto ezibaxhalabisayophambi kokuba uphendule.Amathemba akasoloko ethetha ukuba athetha ukuthini.Ukuphindaphinda kubavumela ukuba beve amazwi abo.Kwezinye iimeko, xa abantu abalindeleyo besiva into ebabambezelayo, basenokuziphendulela ezabo iinkxalabo.
3. Fumana isivumelwano.Xa uvumelana nethemba kwinkalo ethile yenkcaso yakhe, udala imeko apho unokutyhila khona iindawo ezibambe ukuthengiswa.Yonke into oxoxa ngayo ngeli candelo lenkqubo yokuthengisa inokukhokelela ithemba elisondele ku "ewe."
4. Qinisekisa ukuba abalindelekileyo bazichazile zonke iinkxalabo zabo.Ngumsebenzi wakho ukucenga abantu abalindelekileyo ukuba bathathe amanyathelo ngokukhawuleza.Ke ngoko, qokelela zonke iinkxalabo onakho ngaphambi kokuba uqalise ukunika iimpendulo.Ayikokuncina oku.Ungumcebisi wethemba kwaye ufuna ukumnceda afikelele kwisigqibo esinolwazi.
5. Cela umntu onethemba lokuthabatha amanyathelo ngoko nangoko.Amanye amathemba enza izigqibo ngokukhawuleza nangokuzolileyo.Abanye bayajijisana nale nkqubo.Nanini na xa ugqiba ukuphendula imibuzo kunye nezinto ezikuxhalabisayo, hlala uphetha ngokucela ithuba lokuthatha inyathelo ngokukhawuleza.
6. Lungiselela ukunikela ukhuthazo olungakumbi.Wenza ntoni xa uphendule yonke imibuzo kunye neenkxalabo, ucele umntu onethemba lokuba enze isigqibo, kwaye uhlala ethule?Ukuba ithemba alivumelani nesisombululo osinikezayo okanye siphakamisa enye inkxalabo, yilungise. 
7. Vala intengiso namhlanje.Hayi kwiveki ezayo okanye kwinyanga ezayo.Kufuneka wenze ntoni ukuvala intengiso namhlanje?Unikele ngexesha namandla akho ukuze uhlangabezane neli themba.Ubuze yonke imibuzo kwaye wazisa zonke iinkcazo ezifunekayo ukuze umntu athathe isigqibo esifundisiweyo.Yenza umzamo ofanayo wokwenza ingxelo/imibuzo yakho yokuvala njengoko ukwenzile xa ulungiselela yonke intetho yakho, kwaye uya kuva “ewe” rhoqo.

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