Xa usebenza nabathengi, ulindele ukuba uya kujongana ne-cranky ngamanye amaxesha.Kodwa kulo nyaka uvelise izinto ezininzi ezingalunganga-kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba ujongane nobukrelekrele kunangaphambili.

Ke kubaluleke kakhulu kunangaphambili ukuba ulungele ukusebenza nabathengi abadanileyo, nabangalunganga.

"Uninzi lwethu kufuneka senze umsebenzi owongezelelweyo ukuze sizihlanganise kwaye sizise amandla afanelekileyo ekusebenzeni."Utsho uMcLeod."Xa ubonisa ukudibanisa yonke intshiseko onokuyenza, kwaye omnye umntu ekhupha ubutyhefu emoyeni, kunokuziva ngathi ujongelwa phantsi kwimizamo yakho."

Xa usebenza nabathengi abangalunganga (okanye oogxa), usafuna ukulungisa imiba yabo kuqala naphambili.Kodwa unokuthatha amanyathelo ambalwa ukunceda ukuguqula imeko engalunganga ibe yeyakhayo.

Zama la maqhinga mane kuMcLeod:

1. Sukuvuma (okanye awuvumi)

Akunyanzelekanga ukuba unqwale okanye unike imiqondiso yomlomo efana no-“uh-ha” ngesivumelwano njengoko bethetha ngendlela embi ngayo into.Kwaye awufuni ukungavumelani, nawe, kuba oko kungaguquka.

Kunoko, gxininisa ngokuthe ngcembe kumbandela okhoyo kunye nesicombululo onokusinika sona.Qinisekisa abathengi abagxekayo ngamabinzana akhuthazayo anjengathi, “Singayikhathalela le nto,” “Uzise emntwini ofanelekileyo,” okanye “ndiyayazi into esinokuyenza ukuze siyihoye ngoko nangoko.”

2. Ziqhelise ukuba novelwano

Nokuba uyakuphepha ukuvuma okanye ukungavumelani, uya kufuna ukubonisa uvelwano kubantu abangalunganga.Esona sizathu sikhulu kukuba awukwazi nje ukuyazi imizabalazo abanokuba nayo.Isenokungabi nto okanye isenokuba ziingxaki zemali, imiba yokukhathalela okanye iingxaki zempilo.Ingxaki abanayo abantu isenokuba mncinane kuwe, kodwa isenokuba ngumququ oqhekeza umqolo wenkamela.

Ngoko bonisa uvelwano usebenzisa amabinzana anjengathi, “Oko kusenokucaphukisa,” “Ndiyaxolisa kuba kuye kwafuneka ujamelane nale nto” okanye “Ndicinga ukuba abantu abaninzi bebeya kuvakalelwa ngaloo ndlela.”Emva koko uya kufuna ukuqhubela phambili kwizisombululo ukuze ugweme ukungena kakubi.

3. Ukuqondisa kwakhona amandla

Inye into ofuna ukuyiphepha xa usebenza nabantu abangalunganga kukuvumela ukungakhathali kwabo kuchaphazele isimo sakho sengqondo - ngakumbi ngenxa yabanye abathengi oya kubanceda kunye noogxa oza kunxibelelana nabo.

Ngoko uMcLeod ucebisa iAikido, uqheliselo lwekarati.Ingqikelelo kuxa uhlaselwa awutyhili ngqo ngasemva.Endaweni yoko, uqondisa amandla omchasi kwenye indawo.

Emsebenzini, ungathumela i-negativity ngokukhokelela abathengi kwizibonelelo okanye izenzo ezibaxhobisayo.Umzekelo, lungisa umba emva koko wabelane ngesixhobo esifana newebhusayithi, iphepha elimhlophe okanye iphepha lengcebiso eliya kubanceda baphephe umba okanye baphucule inkalo ethile yomsebenzi okanye ubomi.

4. Hlela kwakhona ingqondo yakho

Kuya kubaluleka ukuqiniseka ukuba awuvumeli ukungakhathali okuninzi kuchaphazele imbono yakho.UMcLeod ucebisa ukuba wenze inqaku elithi "ujikeleze nabantu abakukhulisayo, ababona isilivere, kwaye bakugcine ugxile kwizinto ezibalulekileyo."

Khangela kunye noogxa bakho, abahlobo okanye amalungu osapho anethemba.Okanye funda iikowuti ezikhuthazayo, mamela iipodcasts ezikhuthazayo okanye ubukele iividiyo ezikhuthazayo.

Kwaye ekupheleni kosuku lomsebenzi, zahlule kuyo.Nokuba usebenza eofisini okanye ekhaya, hamba ngokwasemzimbeni ushiye umsebenzi kunye namava angalunganga kwaye uvumele ngokwasengqondweni.

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